Thursday, October 21, 2010

Day 10- Someone you need to let go of

I actually did this recently, and since it is so fresh in my memory I picked it.

For years I was good friends with a guy I went to high school with. We hung out and got along great, and were just good friends. But there was something more. Have you ever felt strangely connected to another person with absolutely no real, tangible reason for it? Yeah, well, there was a connection there, something I still can't fully explain, but it was sort of an innate "pull" towards him. Nothing romantic, or anything like that, but a genuine connection that lead me to think about him all the time, much to my detriment. There was a deep caring and concern there that didn't come from this lifetime.

I don't know how you may feel about past lives, but I believe they exist, I've had far too many things happen in my life to not. And what this connection was that we had was from a mutual past existence together.

I said I recently let go of this person, but really, what I did was finally break that spiritual tie between us so we could both move on and live this life in peace. And truthfully, I feel so much better having done it!

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Sometimes I still need to let go of an ex-boyfriend of mine. He was the only guy I had ever lived with before my husband, so when we split, it felt more like a divorce than a breakup. There are times when I will hear a song, or something else will make me think of him. And I can't help that--he was a huge part of my life, and I can't erase that. But sometimes I choose to dwell on it, imagining what could have been, or reminiscing on things when they were good. It's especially easy, if I'm angry/disappointed with my husband, to think my life would have been so much different with D. But that's not reality--it's not the life I've chosen. I've chosen to make a life with my husband, and I need to choose to live in that. And you know what? It's not a bad life. Not at all. :)